POWERFUL CONNECTIONS

Personal Success Mentoring and Coaching

Investing in yourself is the best thing you can do. Anything that improves your own talents; nobody can tax that or take it away from you.
Warren Buffet
MY MISSION

I help people build lasting success in their lives






 

 

 

Your Coach

I hold multiple professional certifications and have worked with hundreds of individuals. Find out more about me in "My Story" and "Services" section.

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What I Do

Your brain is the most powerful tool you have in the world. Everything you do, all the results you create are caused by the thoughts within your brain. If you have areas in your life where you are not showing up in the way that you want to and are not having the results you want, it is because of thoughts your brain is having around that area of your life.

A lot of those thoughts were programmed into your brain throughout your life. Most of them you are not consciously aware of. But they still drive and control you.

When you get coached, you get to find out what is going on in there. You get to see those thoughts and see how they determine how you feel, act, and create results. You will no longer wonder why things happen to you. You will see EXACTLY how you make events happen in your life. And you can use that knowledge to create more of the results that YOU WANT. You can be just one thought away from what you want. Just one thought can change the trajectory of your day, week, year, and your life.

With each session you will feel yourself and your life change. You will have more clarity. More confidence. Feel more empowered and more excited about your life. You will understand yourself and others better and see improvement in your relationships. You will be more efficient and effective in your work. You will feel better and have more energy.

When you learn to work with and manage your mind you will be amazed at what you are able to create. And here is a bonus- it is simpler than you think. Are you ready do this?

Book a free consultation with me to see how coaching can transform you and your life.

Difference Between Coaching and Therapy

While there are some areas of overlap, the main difference between coaching and therapy is that therapy is focused on problems rooted in the past to restore health in the present. It works on resolving past traumas and issues to change self-destructive habits with the hope of creating a more stable future. Therapy takes someone from negative, to zero or neutral.

Coaching is present and future based. It’s about action and results and coaches measure their client’s success with specific outcomes. Coaching helps people go from neutral to higher. The goal of life coaching is to help you get “unstuck”. The life coach will identity current problematic patterns and behaviors so that you can modify them and move forward. The coach will also help you set specific goals, provide accountability, and celebrate your wins. Sessions are structured and are focused on actionable strategies and visible growth.

While therapists determine illnesses and pathologies so their patients can be clinically treated, coaches do not diagnose. They also do not work with active trauma, treat mental health illnesses or problematic self-destructing behaviors.

How do you know which one you need?

For example, if you decided to climb a mountain: Does your past dictate that you require a sherpa or a physician?

If you currently have a medical condition that must be resolved before undertaking the climb, you would first see a doctor for treatment. You need a baseline of good health before you begin the trek.

If however, you are already in good physical condition, then you are perhaps prepared to seek the services of a sherpa to undertake the journey. These specialized experts will help you with climbing strategy and finding the most efficient path forward.

In this case the therapist is the physician who will certify that you are ready to begin your climb. The coach is the sherpa who will hone your skills, help you with motivation and accountability, and take you from a beginner climber to an expert one.

Often, clients choose to see a coach and a therapist at the same time. Both professions offer critical insight into personal issues and help individuals live higher quality lives.

Who I Do and Do Not Work with

Coaching with me is not for the faint of heart.

I Do Not Work with Those Who:

  • Seek to blame their circumstances on others
  • Lack a moral compass and will do whatever it takes to succeed with little regard for others
  • Have little interest in accepting responsability for results they create
  • Think that only others should change
  • Place little value on emotional intelligence and self improvement
  • I Do Work with Those Who:

  • Possess dreams and goals and are excited to work toward them
  • Are willing to take responsibility for their lives
  • Are interested in becoming a driving force in their own lives
  • Have growth (vs fixed) mindset and are open to change and exploring different perspectives
  • Desire to live fully and savour every moment
  • WHAT DOES US WORKING TOGETHER LOOK LIKE?

    I work with clients in three month increments. Most often we meet weekly with all sessions held online for your convenience. Clients have they option to record calls for easy review:

    1. Much of my work consists of identifying beliefs and thoughts that hold you back from taking the action required to yield results in life you wish to have. Such beliefs are often harbored by clients internally for a long time. While we are able to identify blocks efficiently, it can take time for positive thought habits to set. Research has shown that durations of less than three months seldom create lasting change.

    2.I strive to have clients leave the sessions feeling positive and uplifted, ready to take on the week. My job is to create a mental container where everything seems possible. After sessions, clients return to their everyday lives; the world built around old beliefs. A world that risks pulling them back into old habits. Add the stresses of daily life, distractions, and unexpected events that lead us off track. Until you become habitual in your new way of thinking your brain will need to be cleaned out regularly. That’s why we meet weekly. Also- if you only get coached occasionally it is usually around a problem or a crisis that arose. When you get coached weekly, we can get in deeper. We can plan further. We can look and celebrate how far you’ve come.

    I do not use a cookie cutter approach- all sessions are custom fit for you- your specific challenges and aspirations.

    You bring openness, willingness to look at yourself and your patterns.

    I bring my tools and experience to help you access your inner resourcefulness and genius.

    When we first start working together, we set goals for the whole length of the contract. We come up with a doable action plan and start tackling your goals one session at a time. Remember how to eat an elephant? Everything is doable when broken into small enough pieces. If, however, something else comes up that you think is more important- we can always adjust course. You are always in charge. This is your time, and I am here to support you with what you need most.

    If you want something bad enough, know this; you are the only one who can make it happen. It all starts with you.
    Fred Morse

    About

    I was born and raised in a beautiful mountainous country of Kyrgyzstan in the heart of Central Asia before immigrating to Canada 17 years ago. While the move opened a lot of new possibilities for me it also proved to be quite challenging. Culture shock and loss of identity and my place in society hit me hard. I ended up going through a period of depression with consequent trauma. I didn’t know of all the tools available to me, so I dove headfirst into reading everything that I could find about emotions, psychology, communication, and relationships.

     

    On the other side of that journey I developed a huge passion for helping others understand themselves deeply so that they can live rich fulfilling lives. I came across coaching and, to my amazement, realized there is a great deal of structure to the process. Structure that now supports me to help individuals from all walks of life and a diverse set of challenges. I am extremely passionate about mental health and personal awareness. There are a number of elements in life we cannot control, but we can control ourselves. And when we truly tap into our power the world that opens is remarkable. This is what I do for my clients. I help them tap fully into their inner resources, feel empowered, and take control. And fall deeper and deeper in love with lives they create one conversation at a time.

     

    Using coaching tools has helped me create and live the life of my dreams: business I love, finding the love of my life and building a family with them. Fulfilling relationships with friends and a deep relationship with myself where I believe in and appreciate myself and have my own back no matter what happens. I have personally experienced the power that comes with knowing how to use our mind and I am passionate about teaching others the same skill.

     

    Training and Certifications:

     

    Erickson College International - Professional Certified Life Coach Certification
    Erickson College International - The Art and Science of Family/Couples Coaching Certificate
    Erickson College International - The Art and Science of Mindfulness
    Erickson College International - Neuro Linguistic Programming Certification
    Moving The Human Spirit - Trauma Informed Coaching
    The Life Coach School- Certified Life Coach Certification (In progress)
    Plus hundreds of books/trainings/seminars I have attended for my own growth and development that I also use as coaching tools to help my clients.

    Find out more about my training and qualifications in the "What I do" section.

    Contact

    I am deeply committed to my clients and therefore only work with certain number of people at a time. If you would like to explore the possibility of working together please contact me and we can schedule a discovery session. I look forward to hearing from you.

    Location:

    Calgary, Alberta, Canada

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